Sunny days & Starry nights ... Sunday, June 19, 2011
im starting to understand the people who hops around groups of friends. how they can have so many friends and yet be free. no strings attached. that simply says there are no emotional connectedness in the relationships. i do not expect anything from you, my heart is still mine and we are just hanging out for fun, really. not for the friendly support, but for the physical presence. i finally learnt that.
that is why people who are cliques in school remain in the academic setting and do not bring their relationship outside of school. that is why some people choose to travel with acquiantances instead of close good friends. ( becos there is alws a fear of getting hurt as friendships bring expectations. its like your feelings are hinged on another's actions. )
but that is also why, sometimes people find themselves so alone with no true friends.
right now this is the conclusion i glean. have many friends, but trust and give your heart only to a few.
no strings attached.
on another note...
it is true that in a relationship, it is never balanced. one party will alws give more.
& Lazy afternoons ...
12:14 AM :D
Today was good. Today was fun. Tomorrow is another one.
